During a chat at a marriage reception few hours back, a close friend of my wife was saying "who has time for health checkups. When the health protests, we will look into that". Though my wife put up a worried face as the friend was in her early fifties that demands regular attention, she did agree that it requires multiple visits to the hospital and consultation , which should really be challenging when you are still at work.
On a recent tour, there were occasions to climb some small hills with steep and irregular steps to reach out to some prominent places of visit. An accompanying friend said had it been some years earlier, he would have done it with ease and rued his decision to wait for his official chores to complete before turning this way!
My relative couple who were both in a mad man's working world until recently, eased out to focus on their only daughter's marriage and also performed it with all grandeur. The lady haunted by the daughter's separation after her marriage was wondering whether she should have quit her job early and spent more time with her daughter. It was pathetic to hear her lamenting "when she was here, we didn't have time and when we are free, she is not around"and the regret was palpable.
During our periodic meet, my friend who is in a very senior position in a flourishing industry said he was ready to hang the boot but was only wondering what to do with the time, as he felt that there is 'enough steam left in him to chug along' for a couple of more years !
Last of the above words seemed to suggest a solution to the dilemma of 'when to hang the boot' !
It is when you are 'still left with energy' to chug along.
When one is officially expected to work putting in his best foot forward and with full energy until the stipulated age, it is well known that care is taken to maintain these resources well for optimum usage at least until that milestone.
By hanging the boots a couple of years early, one could not only use those officially available energy but also use that to recoup the lost energy to extend the fitness levels for some years ahead ! When you are in the zone of 'expected working of around ten hours a day', tasks such as long travel or climbing small hillocks should not be a big ask. The renewed energy could enable one to focus more on the forgotten priorities like more family time, planning for family events and travel round the country which would have so far remained only as desires. And more importantly to concentrate on your own health- which so far is the most sacrificed item on one's agenda and is always a candidate for the place at the sacrificial altar for any other priorities. This is a serious neglect as one could pay with a fat purse and more nerves, should the tiring body choose to revolt at the sunset of your life, when you are planning to put your feet up and enjoy life.
As for post retiral activities, believe me there are any number and yours truly is reasonably qualified to dwell on the same. Given the demands of the prevailing challenges of industries, it is not unfair to expect any person to slow down at least, if not stop working, by his mid-50s. So, it is imperative to start the planning exercise around by forties and a very small monthly savings through your occupational years could see one through these rainy days of early retirement !
Before you choose to retire do remember to list down the things you have been wanting to do or get involved but could not as your work was felt to be the stumbling block. It could be more quality time with family, periodic family outings, places to visit, small treks, music, reading or exploring any other hidden talent in you that could be easily converted as hobby, in the later years.
One can afford and allowed to enjoy unplanned hours in the early days of retirement, but not for long. Plan your day, if not on the same rigorous lines of official days but on a reasonable measure, as an extended unplanned period could easily invite ennui to set in , which is not the purpose of early retirement. If one desires, it is within everyone's reach to wake up some of the sleeping talents within you, that will be your companion towards the retired sector of your life circle.
The catch is planning, timing and enjoying, when you are still left with the steam and things are on your side ! Its more important to hang the gloves, before a gentle reminder is given, so that you could enjoy an unrestricted field before you, to kick around .
" There are many breeds of dog that just needs to be working, and useful or have a job of some kind, in order to be happy. Otherwise, they are neurotically barking, scratching or tearing up the sofa".
Its no wonder , everyone's wish is not to end up with a dog's life !!
On a recent tour, there were occasions to climb some small hills with steep and irregular steps to reach out to some prominent places of visit. An accompanying friend said had it been some years earlier, he would have done it with ease and rued his decision to wait for his official chores to complete before turning this way!
My relative couple who were both in a mad man's working world until recently, eased out to focus on their only daughter's marriage and also performed it with all grandeur. The lady haunted by the daughter's separation after her marriage was wondering whether she should have quit her job early and spent more time with her daughter. It was pathetic to hear her lamenting "when she was here, we didn't have time and when we are free, she is not around"and the regret was palpable.
During our periodic meet, my friend who is in a very senior position in a flourishing industry said he was ready to hang the boot but was only wondering what to do with the time, as he felt that there is 'enough steam left in him to chug along' for a couple of more years !
Last of the above words seemed to suggest a solution to the dilemma of 'when to hang the boot' !
It is when you are 'still left with energy' to chug along.
When one is officially expected to work putting in his best foot forward and with full energy until the stipulated age, it is well known that care is taken to maintain these resources well for optimum usage at least until that milestone.
By hanging the boots a couple of years early, one could not only use those officially available energy but also use that to recoup the lost energy to extend the fitness levels for some years ahead ! When you are in the zone of 'expected working of around ten hours a day', tasks such as long travel or climbing small hillocks should not be a big ask. The renewed energy could enable one to focus more on the forgotten priorities like more family time, planning for family events and travel round the country which would have so far remained only as desires. And more importantly to concentrate on your own health- which so far is the most sacrificed item on one's agenda and is always a candidate for the place at the sacrificial altar for any other priorities. This is a serious neglect as one could pay with a fat purse and more nerves, should the tiring body choose to revolt at the sunset of your life, when you are planning to put your feet up and enjoy life.
As for post retiral activities, believe me there are any number and yours truly is reasonably qualified to dwell on the same. Given the demands of the prevailing challenges of industries, it is not unfair to expect any person to slow down at least, if not stop working, by his mid-50s. So, it is imperative to start the planning exercise around by forties and a very small monthly savings through your occupational years could see one through these rainy days of early retirement !
Before you choose to retire do remember to list down the things you have been wanting to do or get involved but could not as your work was felt to be the stumbling block. It could be more quality time with family, periodic family outings, places to visit, small treks, music, reading or exploring any other hidden talent in you that could be easily converted as hobby, in the later years.
One can afford and allowed to enjoy unplanned hours in the early days of retirement, but not for long. Plan your day, if not on the same rigorous lines of official days but on a reasonable measure, as an extended unplanned period could easily invite ennui to set in , which is not the purpose of early retirement. If one desires, it is within everyone's reach to wake up some of the sleeping talents within you, that will be your companion towards the retired sector of your life circle.
The catch is planning, timing and enjoying, when you are still left with the steam and things are on your side ! Its more important to hang the gloves, before a gentle reminder is given, so that you could enjoy an unrestricted field before you, to kick around .
" There are many breeds of dog that just needs to be working, and useful or have a job of some kind, in order to be happy. Otherwise, they are neurotically barking, scratching or tearing up the sofa".
Its no wonder , everyone's wish is not to end up with a dog's life !!
" Great- thought provoking :-) " says Natarajan TM
ReplyDelete"Excellent Post. Thanks" says Dr.S.Muralidharan
ReplyDeleteRema Visavamani wrote on 22-Nov-2014 "Very well written. Enjoyed reading this blog. This is precisely what I am doing. And it takes as few years to find out what you are really interested in. I am glad I am able to pursue all my hobbies when the going is good. Had I started after my full term service I would not been able to do anything...."
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